If I’m here tomorrow, please let me smother you in love as often as I want.
I realized yesterday that you are a person trapped inside a tiny, non talking, non walking, misunderstood human body. You are a big boy on the inside and baby on the outside.
The past few weeks you have started yelling in different ways to communicate to me. When you want me to pick you up, you scream and stomp your foot. When you’re all done eating, you scream (and start to wave all done in sign language or you simply try to rip the tray off). When sister steals a toy, you swat at her and yell. When your foot is out if your footie pajamas, you yell your frustrations. When sister hurts you, you have a specific I’m in pain cry. When you’re in a lot of pain from a fall, you wiggle and scream. You say “mama” very sad and slow when you need me and only I will do.
In all of these ways, you are doing your best to communicate. You know what you want and you’re doing your best to convey that to us.
You know what you like. You love pushing the walkers. You love rolling the ball and chasing it. You love playing catch. You love throwing the ball. You love knocking over building blocks. You love making noise by banging two objects together.
You have been trying to say the word “dog.” You go up to the dogs and “pet” them by swatting and yelling “dah, dah, dah”. It’s similar to your dadada noise but different.
When you see something you want, you book it towards the item. If my phone is left laying in your reach, if you spot any drinks, or if daddy comes in the room. You are determined to get exactly what you’re after.
You have been walking about 5-10 steps at a time. You haven’t taken off fully walking yet. You want to be. You get overzealous and your body goes before your feet can catch up. You have been walking walls and furniture to get around.
You love food but would much rather eat what we are eating. You love chicken pieces and teething wafers and Cheerios. Sadly, I don’t have time to make all of your baby food. You eat too much for me to keep up. You do like my homemade applesauce though.
You practice, practice, practice. All day long. If you fall, you get back up and do the same thing over and over to learn how you fell and how to prevent it. You are cautious and calculated yet fearless at the same time. You push my hand away if I’m trying to stop you from doing something. You are stubborn.
Your personality is forming and you are learning new things every day. I love that we get to be a part of your life. Right now, you are stuck between baby and toddler but more on the toddler side. It’s bittersweet because you are more than likely our last baby. And neither you nor Flo have stayed babies for long, always wanting to advance to the next level. You both were eager to get out of the baby stage.
This past weekend you turned 9 months, and I know by Christmas you will really be toddling around. You will be turning 3 like Flo before I know it. But as you grow up, keep my heart in mind. Remember that you are my last baby and I want to savor every moment. I can’t pause time or slow down time. All I have control over is the present moment. I may smother you in kisses and hug tightly because that’s all I can do. Please accept this.